Finding my identity as an adult babyboy

Finding my identity

Within the kink community you have probably come across several identity or role terms like: ABDL, ageplayer, babyboy, babygirl, big, little, middle, brat, puppy, dominate, submissive, switch, babyfur and likely others. These might seem a little overwhelming as you try to find your own identity; they were for me. As I’ve started to meet others, I’ve also realized that these terms can mean different things to different people.

In this post I thought it may be helpful to share with you a little bit about how I found my identity.

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The Day the Music Died

The Day the Music Died

Authors Note: The following is a guest post from my wife, lets call her, KareBear. After reading the series I put together about My ABDL Journey, she wanted to write a post from her perspective after learning about my ABDL side.

I do not recall the words that were said the night my husband told me about his “little” side. I have no desire to try.

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The Great ABDL Diaper Baseball Bet

Over the past year or so, I have been trying to deepen some of my ABDL friendships. As an introvert, I have a relatively small inner circle of friends. The past few months, I have really come to appreciate my ABDL friends more than ever!

I usually message with a couple of my ABDL friends a couple times per day. One day, I was texting with, DLDex. As we were texting, I realized that the Boston Red Sox were coming to town to play the World Champion Royals in a 3-game series. Knowing that Dex was also a baseball fan, I made a half-joking comment that we should make a friendly, diaper based, wager on the series. We ran with it.

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My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 5 – Too many secrets

An expedition into my life as an ABDL

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The day Big Bear came home with me from Costco!

Welcome back! This is the final post in a five part series about my life as an ABDL. This series was inspired by some journal posts a good friend of mine shared with me. After reading them, I decided I should document my own personal journey as a lifelong ABDL.

If you haven’t already, you might want to head over to read my other posts in this series:

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My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 4 – Bedwetting Returns

An expedition into my life as an ABDL

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The day Big Bear came home with me from Costco!

Welcome back! This series of write-ups was inspired by some journal posts a good friend of mine shared with me. After reading them, I decided I should document my own personal journey as a lifelong ABDL.

If you haven’t already, you might want to head over to read my other posts in this series:

Continue reading “My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 4 – Bedwetting Returns”

My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 3 – College life

 An expedition into my life as an ABDL

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The day Big Bear came home with me from Costco!

Welcome back! This series of write-ups was inspired by some journal posts a good friend of mine shared with me. After reading them, I decided I should document my own personal journey as a lifelong ABDL.

If you haven’t already, you might want to head over to read my other posts in this series:

Continue reading “My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 3 – College life”

My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 2 – The middle years

An expedition into my life as an ABDL

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The day Big Bear came home with me from Costco!

Welcome back! This series of write-ups was inspired by some journal posts a good friend of mine shared with me. After reading them, I decided I should document my own personal journey as a lifelong ABDL.

If you haven’t already, you might want to head over to read my first post in this series:

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My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 1 – In the beginning

An expedition into my life as an ABDL

Introduction

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The day Big Bear came home with me from Costco!

This series of write-ups was inspired by some journal posts a good friend of mine shared with me. After reading them, I decided I should document my own personal journey as a lifelong ABDL.

I’ve shared parts of my story on some of my online profiles, but I’ve never put down the story of my journey all in one place. I don’t think I am going to hold anything back. Even though this description isn’t overly graphic or sexual in nature (I’ll save that for another article), some portions of this series might squick some people. Please proceed with caution. I am not sure how this will end up, but I guess I need to start somewhere so grab a juicebox and I’ll get started… Continue reading “My Personal ABDL Journey: Part 1 – In the beginning”